Ever thought why Newton created his third law??? “Every action has an equal and opposite reaction”. There is a natural law of opposites. For everything good , there has to be something bad about it… for everything happy, there had to be something sad… for every force of nature, may it be feelings or emotions , there has to be some balance in it… and that balance comes from the opposite forces.
As the love bird would soar into the sky… they same way gravity will pull it back on earth… usually gliding, but mostly falling down
(Remind me again why I started writing this :D??? )
We all need two things mostly… 1. To not be alone or to feel left alone. 2. To be appreciated and loved for who we are… a friend of mine told me that there is a difference between need and want… and when you figure that difference out, you may not have to deal with opposite forces that much.
Most of us have fallen in and out of love … most of us don’t have a good experience in it.. and most of us hate “LOVE”… I would not consider myself in that category as I have experienced the highest and brightest kinds of love but at the same time I strongly agree with the Newton’s third law.
The questions remains… what can we do to overcome the other force of nature… why don’t we create a checklist… if we don’t come upto the checklist… we might get ready for the battle with the opposite forces… n then only may be we will fight those forces in a better way
So ya… the check list…
- Do you fight on the exact same topic many times (say 5 times in the last month)
- Do you feel that its you only who compromises?
- Do you think you are not getting the respect you deserve?
- Do you feel like at the end of the day , you are the one being blamed
- Does he/she admits when he is at fault?
- Does he/she lets you be comfortable being yourself? And appreciates for who you are?
- Does he/she apologizes when its their fault??
Now once again, this checklist doesn’t necessarily means that he/she has fallen out of love with you… it just means that the other force has attacked and it’s time for you to do something about it … so hold onto your weapon.. don’t know what that is???? Its LOVE… its what made you fly…
Think about it… do you really want this bird to be caged again ??? isn’t you relation worth fighting for ??? if its not.. then ok.. but if it is… hold on to it… coz it definitely is fighting for.. ( sure is for me :D )
( Dedicated to all my friends, loved ones and family.. you all are worth fighting for … and I will love you and will fight for you … ALWAYZ :) )
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